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"In fact, the gifts parents give their children should not be wealth. Children's wealth should be earned by their own hands. What parents can give their children, in addition to nurture, is to give them the character and habits that will benefit them for life." I am very agree with this view. Only by being "optimistic, confident, and strong" can a child's heart be strengthened, and she (him) can truly have the capital to happily meet every vision and challenge in life.
When I was a child, I watched Xiulan Temple's movies. In and out of the show, they were sunny, confident, sweet, versatile, polite, smart and cute. One pistachio left a deep impression on me! Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I really hope that my daughter can learn some skills and excellent qualities from her. I admire some movie stars like this. Only with talent can they quit acting in politics. The first female chief of protocol in the history of the United States is really Deserved!
 Shirley Temple I have always had an idea in my heart: I want to give children some guidance and inspiration through Temple's movie stories.
After my daughter was born, I collected a complete set of "The Complete Works of Xiulan Temple Movies on VCD", ready to show her when she is older. Maybe each child's growth has her unique life trajectory. During the process of 1 to 3 years old, I tried many times, and I was a little interested at first, but I avoided watching after a few episodes, maybe the picture is too old , but "Winnie the Pooh" or "Teletubbies" can make her eyes shine...
No way, in my educational philosophy for children, "happy and aggressive" is the main theme, subjective suppression, children will not be happy, and the results will not be large. Therefore, I subtly integrated the guidance of this aspect into the life environment of the child, and encouraged her to work hard in this aspect, so as to continuously gain happiness, self-confidence and ability.
So, I let her have a broad horizon, free creativity and reverie, not limited to the constraints of daily hygiene habits, "confidence and cuteness" gradually became her nature:
 encourage her to be creative  Ayabebe's floor dance I would like to say that our inspiration for Xiulan Temple is: happiness can lead to vision, accumulation can lead to capital, and self-confidence can lead to fearlessness. Children can't just play big, they should also be guided by their parents to grow up. It is a great experience on my parenting road!
If you keep practicing this idea, your child will always grow and change:
2015 Yunnan Provincial TV Station "Youth Chinese Dream" Competition Dream Star Winner Here's a video I recorded for my kids years ago. At the scene, we saw the real growth and change of the child! As long as self-confidence takes root in the hearts of children, we will only be left with surprises for our parents!
Now, role models like Shirley Temple have a lot to teach us as parents. Education does not need to be limited in form, but it is necessary to keep pace with the times. In short, when the heart is relieved, everything will come naturally!
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Time passes like flowing water - Guarding the life of those eternal values!【网际飞鹰】
