Talk about the misunderstanding of family education! How to give children the right education?

Eagle's personal opinion. It would be a pity to write so much that no one reads it! If you have an opinion, welcome to discuss, and if you agree with the following educational viewpoints, please give a like:

♞ Let’s talk about our misunderstandings in educating children (the more things we touch on ourselves, the greater the obstacles to the healthy education of our children, keep this in mind)

(1) The stick waits for the results (if you play fear, you will also play rebellion)

(2) Discuss heroes with "scores" (do not pay attention to accumulation, pay too much attention to superficial things)

(3) Kochi means quality

(4) Do not teach children in accordance with their aptitude (the east and the west are short, all other children are excellent, they cannot find any advantages of their own children, do not summarize the characteristics of their own children, and are not good at encouraging and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude)

(5) Despise the child's "mental health" problem (too much care about the majesty of the parents, lack of love and equal care)

(6) Ignore the cultivation of children's "persistence" quality (when encountering setbacks, there is no perseverance, no determination and courage to overcome difficulties. After entering junior high school, children will be defeated in the fierce competition environment)

(7) Yelling, preaching education, not paying attention to the method (in high school, this method is basically useless)

♞ Let me talk about some of my personal suggestions (my experience: child education, we have no time to take any exams to enter the job, starting from Xiaobai, and doing it for the rest of our life! Being a parent is indeed a self-improvement practice. )

(1) I very much agree with the nutritional point of view of children's education: sugar, calcium, salt.

"Sugar" is praise and encouragement, and it is an adaptation to the child's nature. "Calcium" is for children to know self-improvement and self-reliance. "Salt" is the setbacks and hardships that children must face in the process of growing up. These three things should not be lost in education.

(2) Tolerance and care of love

If parents do not educate their children, the children will become bad; if parents educate their children in the wrong way, the children will become worse. Therefore, behind the excellent children becoming excellent talents, we can always find the shadow of a harmonious and warm family. To love your child requires tolerance and care, tolerance for his (her) shortcomings, tolerance for his failures, tolerance for his petty temper, tolerance for his momentary malaise, care for his troubles, care for his shortcomings, and always help. Only when your child grows a "steadfast" heart ❤️, the warmth of ❤️❤️ can inspire inspiration and determination!

(3) Childhood is the most magical stage of life, take care of your child's growth at this stage

It is often heard that the secrets of childhood are far from being discovered. For a considerable period in our human history, children have not been regarded as human beings. Do we have children in our history books? Very little. We are all grand narrative ideas, and children are always absent.

Many education methods are unfounded and just passed down from generation to generation. Much education is not based on a real, scientific understanding of the child, sometimes, of course, because the science itself is immature at the time.

Therefore, it is recommended to treat your children as "adults" in childhood, little men, little girls... "You are really a great writer, a great painter, you are really a good teacher for your father..." Don't be stingy with your own language. Accompany more, study the characteristics of your children more, and learn more and make progress, so that when the children grow up, they can teach them: Your parents and your mother are conscientious!

(4) Pay attention to the details of children and the cultivation of learning habits

Life destroys people silently, like a drop of water passing through a stone; similarly, life achieves people silently. Only by paying attention to the details and processes of life, and only by becoming the master of life, can life be accomplished. Agree with this sentence: "State is greater than methods, and methods are greater than hard work." We parents should ponder this sentence carefully, find a good method, and let the child have a good state, in order to truly lay a solid foundation for the child. With accumulation, from quantitative change to qualitative change, it is only a matter of time. There will always be a day when your child will bloom.

(5) Efficiency is always the magic weapon of success, and scientific and effective learning methods are the "secret weapons" that children have in their lives

These two sentences are not difficult to understand. Finding a good teacher, a good school, and a good learning atmosphere is the principle of "Meng's mother moved three times". In modern family education, we must make good use of technology: computer, Internet, online education... I believe that these high-quality resources will surely inspire your child as quickly as possible and help him (her) take off!

In my humble opinion, on the way to family education, let's discuss and cheer together!

Internet Eagle 2020-5-28

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