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Start with the following video: "Father's Confession" by Internet Eagle If mother's love is compared to a blooming lily, exuding its charming fragrance in every corner, then father's love is a jasmine, which silently spit out its fresh fragrance in a corner! There has always been only praise A mother's love is great, but who knows the subtlety of a father's love! How ordinary the word father's love is, but how extraordinary this kind of love is. --Inscription 
Life was like a box of chocolate, you never know what you're gonna get. In a blink of an eye, 29 years have passed, and now I know what it feels like! It can be said that wind and rain know life, and hard work comes to know life! Let me listen to my memories from the place where love began, and experience this touching story of love and growth together. 
If it is said that the mother is suffering and afflicted with the pregnancy in October, then in our family, my father is not easy!
I was pregnant with a child before (a difference of six years). Because of starting a business, my daughter-in-law often came to help me after get off work. Six years later, three months later, the symptoms of threatened miscarriage hit again... My daughter-in-law was very flustered, she hugged me and cried and asked me: What should I do? I also have six gods and no masters. As a first-time father, I am anxious and at a loss!
It was my mother's calm and help (she is a doctor), and through medication and treatment, the situation gradually stabilized.
That is, from that moment, my daughter-in-law took leave from work to go home. In more than six months, I became the main force of the family. From then on, the daughter-in-law's basic daily life, housework, and escort are all covered, and she has to work and work hard outside...
Daughter-in-law is not easy, but man is also very difficult! In order to save the child, every detail and process requires 100% efforts, and the courage to make zero mistakes, otherwise, one wrong step will be irreversible!
At that time, outside the home, there was a lot of pressure and it was unbearable to hold back. I really wanted to hide in a corner and cry a lot after the baby was born safely. But the actual situation is: after the child is born, he can't cry anymore... Even, "the tears are rolling and still laughing", it's not easy! Perhaps, this is a kind of power after giving yourself "man responsibility"!
Counting down to the due date to live, not ~ easy! During that time, his face was haggard, and he was about to become "A Xianggong" ("Axiang Po" may have been heard of, but "A Xianggong" is my definition).
Our elders usually have 3 or 4 children. Having a child has never been so pretentious. Now, the hospital has regular obstetric examinations and various screenings... In addition, this little guy in my family is very noisy in the mother's belly, which makes people worry, which deepens the confusion and anxiety of being a father...
In the days when the child was in the womb of the mother, the father served with delicious food and drink. Folic acid, Fu Shifu, protein powder... Oxygen also bought it home. With my mother, we take a walk in the park every day, listen to music, write a diary, prenatal education... We are all doing our best to treat the baby well!
It was raining lightly on the day of the operation, and the long wait of more than 2 hours made me and my relatives and friends become frightened.
When the doctor shouted the names of the family members, I rushed to the door at a speed of 100 meters, happily welcoming the safe return of the baby and mother!
When I saw the child for the first time and heard the first cry, the heavy stone in my heart fell, and I finally let go. This joy and complex mood, indescribable!
Aya Beibei, when you appear in front of me with small hands and feet and weak appearance, I feel pity! For the first time, I experienced the magic of growth, turning around, sitting, rolling and crawling...I can't wait to witness your growth.
I heard you cry, and I tested your hearing by rattling the bell and playing games with you every day; I was funny and shaking in front of you every day, I hope you can see it as soon as possible; I teach you to crawl, teach you to turn over, and I hope you get strong as soon as possible; At 7 months, when you called out "Dad" for the first time in front of the bed, it was so happy...
This is an important feeling and experience of me as a new father before and after the birth of my daughter. In fact, the mental process of every parent to welcome their baby is generally the same. When a miracle of life comes to us, we are so emotional and cherished. Cherish this fate and cherish this mission. Thank God for giving every child a whole body, mind and intelligence. Health is above all else!
Accompanying is the most affectionate confession a parent can give to a child! Looking back on the past ten years, "raising children" is the most affordable but not let go! Walking with the little snail requires patience and waiting. Children show us unknowingly: the first best side of life. The child's vision is straightforward, the perspective is unique, and the heart is pure. The child is a blank piece of paper, and we need our parents to help her (him) to establish an understanding and open up methods.
Parents' education for their children's growth is a matter for the benevolent to see benevolence and the wise to see wisdom. I don't approve of geniuses, and I don't approve of captive or free-range children. Therefore, I am eager to learn various advanced educational concepts and methods, summarize my own life growth wisdom, failure experiences and lessons learned, observe and discover the personality and characteristics of my children at various stages, and guide my children according to local conditions. road.
Many children miss the good time of early education, and miss the cultivation of interests and habits before primary school (1 to 6 years old). Prenatal education, early childhood education, preschool education... Aya Beibei is learning easily and growing up happily... Suddenly, she has come from babbling, and now she has become a slim, beautiful and versatile girl!
On the Internet, I developed and produced the official blog of "Father and Daughter Love (Aya & Flying Eagle)" for my daughter (it took more than 4 months), and uploaded more than 100 growth videos that I recorded simultaneously over the past ten years. video. Like grass, like wild flowers, more than ten years are like a day, slowly accumulating and growing with children... 
Life is not easy, and it is full of ups and downs. As an ordinary father, I realize it! Diaosi counterattack is a very difficult thing; it is not so easy for a poor family to have a noble child. A child without an umbrella must run hard. I am like this, and my children have to do this too! So, I work hard. Prenatal education, early education, playing with children and growing up... In my wish, as long as children have skills in the future, can support themselves, and have the ability to pursue their own happiness and happiness safely, everything will be OK!
When a child is born, the taste is sweet. When you watch the child, you will see that you like it and become silly, make the child happy, and play with the child... My heart is full of the pride of being a father; growing up with the child is bitter, and every stage is full of pride. There are so many things that need to be faced and dealt with, and eventually you will find that your youth is rubbed on your child day by day; in the face of the child's growth, there is a strong sense of "astringency". The more prominent the character is, the occasional petty temper, the childish but self-inflicted arguments... not only saw the other side of the child's youthful growth, but also tasted the sorrowful taste of youth; 15 years have passed, the child has grown from A little guy with small hands and feet, grows up to be able to walk side by side with himself, and then develops backwards, and if he is not careful, he has to look up at this little guy. This speed, this feeling! Seeing her daughter standing slim in front of her, she was lively, cheerful, diligent, and motivated.
This is the taste of fatherhood, you can immediately experience it with an olive!
Recently I have started to like two songs: one is called "The Thief of the Years" and the other is called "The Frustrated Years". I am very impressed with the two photos recently saved in my mobile phone. The temples are white and full of vicissitudes!
These two songs make me feel so much the same! Stepping into fifty, I began to feel a little dazed, even sad and sad! No one wants to let youth pass through their fingertips, but reality is often just like that!
Water-like youth, wind-like songs, dream-like reverie, you and me in the past.
Goodbye with a wave of his hand, a smile with a raised mouth, a step forward with a foot move, the boy from the past.
Ah, the echoes of the sky
Look at the frivolity of the years
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Go to the cloud to see, go to the cloud
The dark night of youth is wandering with a lamp, and the love of youth does not look back;
don't recall, don't answer
don't remember, don't look back
can't look back
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just don't want to wake up
Because you want to be with me only for you
look at the clouds
 Children, you must remember: the most extravagant person in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you. No one's time is valuable. If you give your time, you will give your own world to you! In your life, there will be two such people, that is: Dad and Mom! Let our family get along well, have a good experience, live the bitter days sweetly, and let the family warm our lives. 
On the eve of Father's Day 2017, I heard a song by Celine Dion, "A New Day Has Come," and was struck by the melody and the soulful expression of the singer. The Father's Day work "Confessions of Father Flying Eagle" with the theme of deep love for women (the video at the top of this article). I have sublimated all the sentences in the song praising love into the deep parent-child relationship between father and daughter. In the video, a lot of precious growth materials and videos of Aya Beibei were inserted. I didn't expect that by chance, it would become a parent-child work that I recorded for my daughter on Father's Day. This is called inspiration!
After that, I set myself a five-year wish for Father's Day: every year on Father's Day, I will make a commemorative video for my daughter's parent-child growth. Accompany your child to grow up until the age of eighteen, enter university, and start a new stage of life...
On Father's Day in 2017, "Confessions of the Father of Flying Eagle Dad" was produced;
On Father's Day in 2018, I wrote the poem "Father Tree" (prose poem), and I will also release the "Trilogy" video works of "Father Tree". They are: (1) the recitation version of "Father Tree"; (2) the story version of "Father Tree"; (3) the song version of "Father Tree" (composed and sung on the guitar)
Writing this article is a reflection of my life. Father's love is not the same, but father's love is by our side, we should really cherish and grasp it! I am grateful to my father, and proud to be a father. This is how life is passed down...
Because I love your love, because I dream of your dreams, I am saddened by your sadness and happy with your happiness; because I have passed your road, because I have suffered through your suffering, so I am happy with your happiness and chase you. The pursuit of... Maybe holding hands, it may not be easy to walk in the previous life, maybe the road with companionship will be more busy in this life, so holding hands, we will walk together in the next life, so there are The road of companionship, there is no time to turn back......
The song "Holding Hands" by Su Rui is a perfect expression of the love for parents!
Here, a deep respect to all fathers!
Give your father a call, or a smile, a hug, a greeting... Let the world of love be sincere and infinite, full of friendship!
Child, we need you!
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Time passes like flowing water - Guarding the life of those eternal values!【网际飞鹰】
